How relationships work

How relationships work

Wednesday, 8 June 2011

How to fall in love

Falling in love is something that cannot be planned. You never know when you can fall in love. This feeling indeed is the most beautiful feeling in the world. If you are among those who haven’t been struck by the cupid’s arrow here is the chance to find your beloved.

A few tips can help you fall in love and find your Mr./Ms. Right. They are given below.
Know your choice- Before you begin one thing that you must be sure of is what kind of person you would want to date. This is the most important of all things. You must have a clear image of the person you would like to fall in love with. Set realistic image. Don’t expect a fairy to descend from heaven just for you or prince charming riding on a white horse comes and sweeps you off your feet. Don’t be too rigid too. You must not set impossible expectations/rules/image to achieve.
Start socializing- Now as you have decided and prepared yourself mentally to fall in love, it’s time to find him/her. Now you obviously won’t be roaming around with a signboard in your hand reading “I want a lover”. So start socialising. Attending parties, get-togethers and clubbing will help you find your special someone. Interaction with more and more people will help you achieve your motive.
Be patient- Now that you have started your search, be patient. Remember, Rome was not built in a day. Similarly it is not possible that you will find your special one overnight. Give yourself time. Don’t be desperate and jump on to any girl/guy to make him your date. Give time to the relationship and start with becoming friends. Who knows things may soon turn out to be the way you wanted them to be!
Don’t be too choosy, nobody is perfect- Now this is something you’ve got to keep in mind. Don’t be too rigid with the image you made for your beloved. Nobody is perfect in this world. Be flexible. Accept the virtues and vices in the person you are falling for. If he/she does not perfectly fit into the image but you find him/her too sweet to be avoided then go with the flow. At the end what matters is the heart. If the person is sweet and you gel well with him/her that serves the purpose!
So if you still haven’t been struck by the cupid’s arrow, start your hunt today to find your special one and feel the magic of love.


  1. Thanks for this beautiful article.i have learned a lot and i know one day my that person will come my way.

    i live in Kampala Uganda and I'm a computer and a journalism student black guy. my choice is a white chic and i wish that one day i see that person coming my way.
    you got some more idea to take me through.drop me an

    Ohan Amos.

  2. Thanks "The Pearl of Great Price" for your lovely comment. I'm sure you are going to get the girl of your dreams soon..! Go ahead, start interacting and if you see your dream girl, don't hesitate to make the first move. Be confident and be yourself, I'm sure she will fall in love with you!! All the best!!


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